We all have seen that some people manage to make it through even the most horrific of divorces with their hearts and smiles intact, whereas others seem permanently withered by their experience. We all want to be a member of the first group and yet we often find ourselves unwitting members of the second. Why … Continue reading 10 Things People Who Thrive After Divorce DON’T Do!
Divorce is often a long process. Apart from assembling the required documentation, writing checks to your attorney and making the requisite trips to IKEA (where you fight with college kids over the practical and value-minded inventory), you end up spending a lot of that time simply waiting. Waiting for your divorce to be final. Waiting … Continue reading 7 Reasons to Cross a Finish Line During Your Divorce
The period after divorce is chaotic as demands fight for attention and everything seems to require a decision and an action. It's overwhelming with its ability to impact every single facet of your life. And it's confusing as you struggle to make the right decisions when your emotions are smothering your abilities to think rationally. … Continue reading After Divorce: The Rule of Three
When bad things happen to good people, the calvary arrives soon after with food and flowers. Level surfaces soon fill with cards expressing condolences and well wishes. Money is collected to help with both normal and unexpected expenses. Friends and family all want to help and being unable to change the circumstances, they respond with … Continue reading Forget the Casserole! What People in Crisis REALLY Need
I recently responded to a woman over at Divorce Force. She had just discovered that for 30 of the 34 years she spent with her husband, he had another family. Her post is brief, the details sparse. But I'm confident that one of the many overwhelming emotions she is feeling right now is that of … Continue reading The Power of “Me Too”