While I was in the midst of my own divorce, I was convinced that my soon-to-be ex husband was my biggest enemy. I was wrong. In fact, in many ways I was my own worst enemy. I allowed myself to become consumed with things that were outside of my control. I grew increasingly frustrated with theContinue reading “How to Control Your Divorce”
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Rock Paper Scissors
During much of my divorce, I felt like I was playing Rock Paper Scissors against a much more skilled opponent. Whenever I would pull out the scissors, out would come the rock, crushing my hopes and my progress. So I would retire the pointed attack, opting for the pliability of paper, only to face theContinue reading “Rock Paper Scissors”
Opening the Journal
Deep breath. In many ways, this will be my most personal post yet. These are the thoughts, the words, that came in the first few weeks uncensored by the keyboard and unedited by time. I’m choosing to share this to reveal the underbelly of the healing process. I want to show that it is possibleContinue reading “Opening the Journal”