15 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’ve Been Cheated On

When you discover that you have been cheated on, your mind immediately begins spinning with questions - "How could they do this?" "Why is this happening to me?" "Am I ever going to be okay again?" Those questions are completely understandable. After all, the person who trusted the most has betrayed you, ripping the well-loved … Continue reading 15 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’ve Been Cheated On

The Cheater’s Playbook

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My ex left behind a letter, typed and in duplicate, when he unexpectedly exited my life. That was followed a couple weeks later by a suicide (attempted) email, sent to both his other wife and my mother. Since I had no other explanations, I poured over those words for months, looking for answers. His words … Continue reading The Cheater’s Playbook

Refuse to Be a Victim

“Let me introduce you to the victim advocate,” offered the policeman who had arrested my husband the day before.   I stopped short. That was the first time that word – victim – had ever been applied to me. I certainly felt victimized. My partner of sixteen years had just abandoned me with a text … Continue reading Refuse to Be a Victim

The Pitch-Black Room

Heartbreak is a pitch-black room. At first, you're disoriented. Confused. How did the familiar world become replaced by this sarcophagus of grief? There are no windows. No doors. Only darkness. And you're all alone. You can hear life as usual just outside your walls, but you are separated from the activity. The air feels funny. … Continue reading The Pitch-Black Room

Five Surprising Upsides to Being Cheated On

Nobody needs to tell you about the pain of being cheated on. You're living that every moment. Instead, I want you to know about the silver linings that can be found amidst the ruins of the betrayal.   https://youtu.be/K6oVdtLfdEU