What is a Tsunami Divorce? A tsunami divorce is one that completely blindsides a spouse, flattening him or her with a wave that was never spotted. A tsunami divorce is characterized by a normal marriage and a normal life up until the moment of total and utter destruction. The spouse that embodies the wave mayContinue reading “What is a Tsunami Divorce?”
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The (Mostly) Unfortunate Side Effects of Being Ghosted
Being ghosted is the relationship equivalent of the missing persons case. Except in this case, the person chose to go missing. Decided to disappear, leaving you abandoned and doubting. Being ghosted is heartache seasoned with questions. It’s loss co-mingled with rage. It’s hard to know when to stop hoping and when to start grieving. It’sContinue reading “The (Mostly) Unfortunate Side Effects of Being Ghosted”
A Day-By-Day Survival Guide to Get You Through the First Month of an Unwanted Divorce, Part 2
Click here to read how to get through days 1-10! Day Eleven Breathe. In times of trauma and transition, it’s all-too-easy to limit the breath. Set aside some time, sit or lie down in a safe and comfortable space and invite the breath in. Put one hand on your belly and one hand on yourContinue reading “A Day-By-Day Survival Guide to Get You Through the First Month of an Unwanted Divorce, Part 2”
Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act
Being abandoned sucks. The shock alone is enough to stop your heart. And then, once it starts beating again, all you want to to is yell at your so-called partner who thought it was acceptable to simply walk away with no notice and no dialog. It steals your voice. It leaves you in a perpetual stateContinue reading “Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act”