Revisionist

When I was in the early days after the text, I found Viki Stark's blog, Runaway Husbands. I had mixed feelings about the discovery. On the one hand, it felt good to know that I wasn't alone. On the other, especially as she was collecting stories for her book, it was filled with wives adding … Continue reading Revisionist

Vulnerable

I've been feeling very vulnerable lately. Why? Who knows, but it doesn't really matter, does it? What matters is that I need to learn to be here when my body is screaming for to hide and bury my head beneath the covers and my mind is begging for to re-erect the barriers that once surrounded … Continue reading Vulnerable

The Book is Out!

You can now find my book on Amazon! The rest of my unbelievable story! More lessons! More metaphors! Check it out! The book is currently available on Kindle. I will be working on the print and Nook versions soon. Thank you to everyone that supported and encouraged me along this journey:)

What is a Tsunami Divorce?

What is a Tsunami Divorce? A tsunami divorce is one that completely blindsides a spouse, flattening him or her with a wave that was never spotted.  A tsunami divorce is characterized by a normal marriage and a normal life up until the moment of total and utter destruction.  The spouse that embodies the wave may … Continue reading What is a Tsunami Divorce?

The Day the Marriage Died

Up until now, everything I have posted has been recently written, almost 3 years since the end of my marriage.  I recently went back and visited some of my earlier writings, drafted in the weeks and months after he left.  I've decided to share some of that, to expose the raw underbelly of divorce.  Please … Continue reading The Day the Marriage Died