How Not to Be Your Own Worst Enemy

When my writing first left the relative safety of WordPress for the great untamed wilds of The Huffington Post, I was elated. The first post hit big and I eagerly sat down that afternoon to read through the rapidly appearing comments. And for every comment that made me feel good about myself or sorry forContinue reading “How Not to Be Your Own Worst Enemy”

Take One, Leave One

If you have some favorite break up resources, here’s an awesome Google doc where you can share your ideas and also learn from others. What a cool idea:) And while we’re on the subject of advice, here’s a link to a synopsis of the Twitter divorce advice chat from Valentine’s Day. I was honored toContinue reading “Take One, Leave One”

5 Steps to Surviving Valentine’s Day After Divorce

The post-divorce calendar is a potential minefield of emotional artillery, ready to blow at the slightest trigger. Some of these days surprise up with their sudden intensity and hidden significance. While others, like the over-hyped and expectation-laced Valentine’s Day, announce their imminent arrival long before the fact. And that notice gives us time to prepare.Continue reading “5 Steps to Surviving Valentine’s Day After Divorce”

Guest Post: How to End an Unhealthy Long-Distance Relationship

No matter how hard you try, sometimes it’s best to end a long-distance relationship. Whether you’re dating the type of guy who will just never succeed in a long-distance relationship or you’ve started to notice the telltale signs that that it’s an unhealthy relationship — your partner isn’t respecting your boundaries around texting, there isContinue reading “Guest Post: How to End an Unhealthy Long-Distance Relationship”