After the Affair: When Does the Pain End?
We think of it like a finish line. Or a wall. Some clearly defined boundary, delineating pain from not-pain. After all, that’s how this all started. You had that moment before the discovery of...
Lessons From the End of a Marriage
A "How to Thrive" Guide After Divorce
We think of it like a finish line. Or a wall. Some clearly defined boundary, delineating pain from not-pain. After all, that’s how this all started. You had that moment before the discovery of...
We often get in our own way after divorce, desperately wanting a way out from the pain while at the same time telling ourselves stories that only serve to hold us in the flames....
“Why am I still hurting so badly?” the email implores of me, the writer speaking of her ten-year-old divorce. As I read her message that details her divorce and her continued and prolonged sadness,...
I was lucky. I never spent time in a decaying marriage. The lies that destroyed the relationship protected me for its duration, keeping me cloaked in relative comfort. I was lucky. I never had...
When I checked my Twitter feed the other day, I saw that something called the “Barkley Marathon” was trending. I was instantly curious. After all, I’d never heard of this particular run (even though...