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Lessons From the End of a Marriage

A “How to Thrive” Guide After Divorce

Conversations Matter

Conversations matter. Through hearing the stories of others, we allow ourselves to question the stories we tell ourselves. By listening to how others experience the world, we give space to perspectives other than our own. When we set down ego and assumptions and defensiveness, we create opportunity for empathy and new understanding. Conversations matter. ToContinue reading “Conversations Matter”


After the Affair: Unraveling the Excuses

Once caught, most partners who have been unfaithful begin to make excuses in a rather lame attempt to justify their actions. In fact, these excuses often begin even before the affair is uncovered. These are the same justifications that they often recite to the affair partner, to friends and to themselves (often to the pointContinue reading “After the Affair: Unraveling the Excuses”

Living With Uncertainty

Like many (most? all?) of you, I’m struggling right now. As a teacher, I’m used to a certain rhythm of the school year. And by now, I should be excited for summer, exhausted by the demands of the end of the school year and putting energy into finalizing plans for the next school year. Instead,Continue reading “Living With Uncertainty”

Life is Not a Waiting Room

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