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Lessons From the End of a Marriage

A “How to Thrive” Guide After Divorce

We Want Them to Fight For Us

  When it comes down to being cheated on, I think that was the hardest thing- That he didn’t see the marriage – didn’t see ME – as something worth fighting for.    I remember reading stories from people who had unfaithful partners who confessed and condemned their own actions, throwing themselves into recovery. IContinue reading “We Want Them to Fight For Us”

Faulty Cheating Logic

I keep encountering people who believe the following: If a man cheats on his wife, then the marriage was sexless. If the marriage was sexless, then it was the wife’s fault. Therefore, if a man cheats on his wife, it was the wife’s fault. *I’m sticking with the male cheater and asexual wife here becauseContinue reading “Faulty Cheating Logic”

Voices in Our Heads

I’m in the process of studying data science for (crossing fingers) an upcoming career change. It requires that I learn a lot of coding and a lot of math. It’s the latter that’s been my struggle. Every time I open a book or press play on a video, I hear my middle school math teacher’sContinue reading “Voices in Our Heads”

We Didn’t Have a Choice

It’s happened again. A person who is cheating on their spouse tried to justify their actions to me. I empathize up to a point. I mean, marriage can be hard. And we can end up in situations way more complicated and difficult than we ever imagined when we said, “I do.” Situations that don’t alwaysContinue reading “We Didn’t Have a Choice”

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