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Lessons From the End of a Marriage

A “How to Thrive” Guide After Divorce

After the Affair: The Dreaded Doctor’s Appointment

It took a few days for the realization to dawn on me. “I need to make a doctor’s appointment,” I muttered half to myself and half to my mom, who was helping me sift through the rubble of my life. “I need to make sure that on top of everything else, he didn’t infect meContinue reading “After the Affair: The Dreaded Doctor’s Appointment”

The Many Faces of the Affair Partner

I saw a question posed on Twitter yesterday asking if anyone had written to the affair partner and, if so, what the outcome was. The responses were interesting and quite diverse. It soon became clear that the type of communication (not to mention its aftereffects) with the affair partner were very much dependent on theContinue reading “The Many Faces of the Affair Partner”

Should You Believe Your Triggers?

I could feel it washing over me like a great wave trying to pull me under, both blinding me and choking me. My body went into full-on fight or flight mode, any rational thinking put on hold until the emergency passed. What was the emergency, you ask? My now-husband mentioned wanting to build a homeContinue reading “Should You Believe Your Triggers?”

When They Deny the Affair

Something’s up. Maybe you stumbled across an inappropriate text or perhaps there’s just a different energy in the air. Either way, your suspicions are growing, eating at you as your imagination begins to shift into overdrive. Summoning your courage as you straddle the line between wanting to know and wanting to believe that everything isContinue reading “When They Deny the Affair”

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