I used to judge. I’m not proud of it. But I used to judge those who stayed in abusive relationships. I criticized the victim for staying put while exclaiming that, were I ever to find myself in a similar situation, I would leave immediately. It always seemed so clear to me. So cut and dry.Continue reading “I Used to Judge”
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Classification of Infidelity
In a recent piece on The Huffington Post, Dr. Mark Banschick describes four outcomes after a cheater is caught or decides to come clean:1) the cheater can make amends and the marriage continues, 2)the cheater can make amends and the marriage ends, 3)the cheated upon can choose to end the marriage or 4)the cheater canContinue reading “Classification of Infidelity”