Marriage: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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From time to time, I have people contact me with a description of their marriage or their thoughts about filing for divorce. After describing the situation, they often conclude with the following question: should I stay or should I go? I have yet to encounter an email which prompts me to answer that question directly … Continue reading Marriage: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

The End of a Relationship: The Leavers and The Left

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This piece, about what happens to the people that leave relationships abruptly and/or with deception, caused quite a stir on Facebook recently. The comments fell into two camps: "Thank you for validating my experience" and "I'm the one who left my marriage and I'm tired of being painted as the bad guy." The reaction got me … Continue reading The End of a Relationship: The Leavers and The Left

Should You Divorce? 12 Questions to Consider

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I’m often thankful that my marriage ended via text. I never had to make the gut-wrenching decision to inform my husband that I wanted out. I’ve never experienced endless days and nights weighing the pros and cons of divorce and anticipating its impact on my life. Even though I never thought about divorce prior to … Continue reading Should You Divorce? 12 Questions to Consider