I Was Married to a Con Man

I thought he loved me. It turned out that he was more con man than confidant.  If my husband had been Pinocchio, his nose would have been a giant redwood. While we were married, I thought he was a real boy. Once he disappeared, I learned otherwise. My husband and I used to watch “Lost”Continue reading “I Was Married to a Con Man”

Feel Like A Man

One of the moments when I loved my now-husband the most is when I witnessed him slide a BB gun into a man’s hands, propping the barrel on the porch railing where it was aimed for some cans. Although no words were spoken, I understood his motivation. He wanted his friend, weak and shaky fromContinue reading “Feel Like A Man”

How to Change a Man

I met up with a friend the other day. She’s at a crossroads with the man she’s been dating for the past year or so. She wants marriage. Not now, but she wants to move that direction and wants that to be the mutual end goal. At this point, he states he does not wantContinue reading “How to Change a Man”