Clean Up, Aisle 5

I received a notice in the mail yesterday that I have to report to court to settle one of the financial messes that my ex left behind. I have known that this was coming, but that does not make its arrival any easier. I’m angry. Angry that he continues to dodge his responsibilities while I,Continue reading “Clean Up, Aisle 5”

Where Is He Now?

When I share my story, one of the most frequent questions I get is, “Where is he now?”  I don’t know the answer to that question. Here is what I do know. From the day he left in July of 2009 until the divorce in 2010, I kept tabs on him.  I had my ways.  Continue reading “Where Is He Now?”

How It Began

My own divorce story began in 2009 when I received a surprise text after 10 years of marriage that my husband was leaving.  That text was the last contact I ever had from him.  Over the next few weeks and months, I struggled to make sense of what happened.  It turned out that the realityContinue reading “How It Began”