After Divorce: It DOES Get Better

Just the other day, somebody contacted me who is in the early months of an unwanted divorce. After responding to the specifics of their situation, I ended with, “It DOES get better.” They responded, “Everybody keeps telling me that.”   This is one of those phrases that can seem like a pat response in theContinue reading “After Divorce: It DOES Get Better”

A Letter to My Ex On the Eve of My Wedding

This was first published in The Huffington Post almost seven years ago. It soon became one of my more controversial pieces. Some people claimed I obviously wasn’t over my ex while others related to the way that every relationship we experience becomes a part of our story. It’s strange to read it now, as itContinue reading “A Letter to My Ex On the Eve of My Wedding”

Bouncing Back

My ex was right. Well, partially right, at least. In the typed letter (which, for some strange reason, was in duplicate) he left on the kitchen counter after leaving me via text message, he wrote this – “I know that once you recover from the shock of this you will bounce back and live aContinue reading “Bouncing Back”