After Being Cheated On: When We’re Told to “Get Over It”

Why “Get Over It” is Misdirected We Wish We Could When we’ve been betrayed, we want nothing more than for the pain to go away. We try to bargain with it, under the desperate illusion that if we can just unlock the secret code, everything will go back to the way it was. Often, weContinue reading “After Being Cheated On: When We’re Told to “Get Over It””

Sprained

If I ever hear one more person say, “Just get over it,” I am going to scream. Loudly. I’m warning you now so that you have time to buy earplugs. I have a little story, an analogy (I know, shocking!), to help the getoverers understand why there are some things you don’t just simply getContinue reading “Sprained”