5 Things You Don’t Understand About Divorce Until You’ve Lived Through It

I thought I knew about divorce. When I was in elementary school, I weathered my own parents’ divorce, observing their reactions from the sidelines. I felt the loss, the change in family structure. I experienced the strange vacancies of a split – the blank spots on the walls where my dad’s pictures once hung andContinue reading “5 Things You Don’t Understand About Divorce Until You’ve Lived Through It”

You Don’t Need to Understand To Be Able to Move On

“I just don’t understand how he could do that to his wife and kids…” “Her words and actions are so cold. I just don’t get it…” “How can someone have so little regard for others?”   I’ve been seeing questions like this with ever-increasing frequency, their authors pleading for answers. For some sort of suddenContinue reading “You Don’t Need to Understand To Be Able to Move On”