The Best Way to Get Over Someone?

It’s common advice –   The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.    And in many ways, this suggestion makes sense. After all, what better way to remind yourself that the one you lost is not the only one than to sample what is available? At the same time,Continue reading “The Best Way to Get Over Someone?”

You’re Not Ready to Date Until You Have These 7 Things In Place!

I put the cart before the horse when it came to dating after divorce. I invited dates to take part in the drama that my ex husband directed. I looked to my partner for the day for emotional support and validation that I was desirable even after being rejected. And I even allowed my date’sContinue reading “You’re Not Ready to Date Until You Have These 7 Things In Place!”

Advantages to Dating In Your 40s (and Beyond)

One of the myriad side effects of divorce is that you may find yourself thrust back into the daunting world of dating in your 40s or beyond. It’s easy to dismiss dating as a young person’s game and become intimidated at the prospect of putting yourself back out there after life has had years toContinue reading “Advantages to Dating In Your 40s (and Beyond)”