How to Fight Fairly With Your Spouse

When Brock and I first started getting serious, I was afraid of arguments. Because I didn’t know how to have them. When it came to marital spats, I was a newbie. At any sign of discord or disappointment, I would flood with emotion and any chance of rational thinking would be washed away. I respondedContinue reading “How to Fight Fairly With Your Spouse”

Reframing Fair

Life’s not fair. You probably first heard those words back in elementary school when a classmate’s misdeeds resulted in mass discipline or some slight against you went unpunished. If you’re anything like me, those words only served to salt the wound, as the brain kicked up reasons that this was different. That this time, theContinue reading “Reframing Fair”