transistance [tran′zis·təns]
(electronics)The characteristic that makes possible the control of voltages or currents so as to accomplish gain or switching action in a circuit; examples of transistance occur in transistors, diodes, and saturable reactors.McGraw-Hill Dictionary of Scientific & Technical Terms, 6E, Copyright © 2003 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.
transistance [tran′zis·təns]
(psychology)
The characteristic of being resistant to transitions.
Me. Sometimes I feel the need to make up a new word or ascribe a new meaning to an established word in order to say what I want to say. This is one of those cases. Apologies in advance if that offends you.
Anyone involved with education is familiar with the enormous transitions from school to summer and then back again. As a teacher, I am involved with shutting down and then restarting an entire organization every year. It is a transition on a macro scale. Embedded within that transition, each person involved is also facing change. I see it in the rising freshmen in the spring and the incoming sixth graders in the fall. I see it on the faces of the parents as they witness their “babies” growing into maturity. I see it in the teachers as we adapt to new curriculum and new routines. It is an exciting and stressful time for all.
But why is it stressful? The coming of another school year and the aging of children are expected. Normal. So why the anxiety that bleeds into the buzz?
Transistance.
We so easily fall into the trap of thinking that the way things are now is the way they are always going to be. We might plan for tomorrow yet we see it from the perspective of today. That creates a friction between our psyches and the “now” that results in a resistance to change. We know transitions are inevitable yet it is difficult to imagine the biting wind of a winter storm while baking in the summer sun.
The only thing constant is change. Heraclitus
I did not used to be as aware of the affect that transitions had on me. I would find that I didn’t sleep as well or that my mind felt scattered, but I never really dug down into it. I am trying to be more mindful of the transitory periods in my life so that approach them proactively. I make sure to take a little extra time to be quiet: yoga, meditation, or a solo hike or run. I do a better job listening to my body even it that means going to bed before 9:00 p.m. I remind myself that the stress of transition is also temporary and that a new normal will once again be reached. I still experience transistance. We all do. But now I can face it with a smile.
How about you? Have you experienced any transitions lately? Did you have transistance? How do you cope with transitions?
I’ve learned that I’m not good at handling transitions, especially when it came to heart break… I didn’t sleep or eat for months… But it has made me stronger, so hopefully next time something bad happens I’ll be able to cope a little better. Of course I hope I never have to go through anything bad ever again, but that’s not realistic, I’m instead hoping that I’m better prepared.
I think when we move through those kind of events in a healthy (note – not easy!) way, it does make us better prepared when something else happens.
That is so true, we always do fool ourselves thinking things will always be the way they are! For me..accepting the fact completely that the change is occurring no matter what, helps me come to terms with it 🙂 Transitions into a forced reality are never easy, but acceptance is always the better choice,it helps to focus on what can be changed or what needs to be done, instead of being stuck in y’day… that’s my experience. But even now, easier said than done 😉 LOL!