Be What You Want to Attract

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  1. Amen to that!! I always shake my head when people fall in love with someone who “will be perfect once they change (whatever)”
    I know a man who got involved with a woman who loved him “exactly as he is” but wanted him to quit smoking, quit drinking, change his career, he is a night hawk, he hates TV she goes to bed religiously at 11 every night and watches TV every evening and excepts him to join her.
    Now he is miserable because he isn’t able to be himself.
    How can you say you love someone when you want to change everything about them?

    • Because it is all too easy to fall in love with the idea of someone! Especially at the beginning of a relationship when the best foot is forward and the worst one hidden:)

  2. Excellent article.

  3. I’m not even close to dating, but looks like I’ve got some homework to do anyway. LOL

  4. Mikhaela Kohlo says:

    This is going on tomorrow’s healing Itinerary: list desires. Then list ways to become desires.

  5. Gilbert says:

    Food for thought. And a large plate at that. Thank you for the menu!

  6. Divorced Kat says:

    The question is whether a person is brave enough to look inward to find these answers.

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