A Message to Those in Pain From Divorce Posted bystilllearning2bJune 23, 2014March 16, 2019Posted inHealing From DivorceTags:Advice, breakup, divorce, healing, lessons from the end of a marriage, lisa arends, pain Share this:
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Thank you again! Although I know most of what you shared already to be true, it’s always good to keep hearing it. It’s funny that just this morning I chose to re read my Journal/book and intentionally rehash my journey to this point 15 months later. Today I get your video message just as the fear is welling up once again. Timing is everything. I am becoming a huge believer in divine intervention. I am also starting to see that even though what happened is devastating. Perhaps it really is and was a divine action in the universe. It happened as it was suppose to? Still a bit of skeptic resides. After all we would like to think we have all the control. Right? LOL
It’s a nice illusion, isn’t it? 🙂
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Just when I needed it…..
Then this blog video showed up in my in box!
Lovely … Thank you for having the courage to put yourself out there! I’m so very grateful.
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A wonderful message of hope
Thank you for sending us this message. Thank you for spending a portion of your life trying to help others experiencing this pain.
You are very welcome.
I have been reading your blog for the last month and you have been a huge inspiration. I am 31 and found out so much about my husband. I am shattered and feel completely blindsided. There is no hope for our marriage and it is completely over. I have fluctuated between every grieving process these last 4 months from when it first started to fall apart. I am so thankful I found your blog and when I watched your video I cried. I know you have been through a horrible period of your life and it felt like you were speaking straight to me. It’s hard when you feel like you’re the only one who is going through this and you can’t switch it off! I have learnt to go with my emotions and be grateful for many reasons. I am so blessed to be surrounded by an amazing network of friends and family. I hope that there is more for me and this is just a course of correction in my life. I have no children and the fear sometimes comes over me that I am getting older but that is something I can’t let consume me. I know I have so much to offer everyone and I know I need to keep doing that. Thank you for sharing, thank you for inspiring and thank you for helping lead the way out of the darkness
Hugs. You’ll get there.
You have no idea how helpful this was tonight. Thank you for doing this.
You have no idea how helpful this was tonight. Thank you for taking the time to make the video.
So glad it helped:) You’ll be okay.
Just another note to let you know you are still reaching people. Your video helped me tonight. I’m going to try the things you suggest, as 1.5 years into this tsunami I still struggle more days than I don’t. I feel despair waiting for the slow passage of time to heal me, and wish it would go faster. I like the idea of taking an active role in healing. Thanks again. You are beautiful inside and out.
I so remember feeling impatient for the healing to just be done already. Being an active participant not only is critical in the healing process, it also helps time move by a little faster as you’re focused on something. That being said, some of it just needs time. Thinking of you.