Discovering the infidelity is often only the first part of the pain. Often it is then followed by excuses and justifications. As though mere words can erase your agony and absolve the cheater of their guilt.
If you have been cheated on, these are some of the excuses you may hear and the real meaning that might be behind the offered justifications.
Lessons From the End of a Marriage 
Thanks for the timely repost…A reminder on the eve of the anniversary of the Worst. Day. Of. My. Life.
“I wasn’t looking to leave you.” . . .
Hope the anniversary passed without too much fanfare. And what a line. Ugh.
The hard part is (and it’s a very long convoluted backstory) that I still work where we both worked . And that entire week is just chaos and hubbub and craziness because there are several graduation ceremonies across the state and the whole week was just… Bob used to attend several of the ceremonies and that’s where he was, ready to meet up with his concubine, when I discovered their affair. Everything reminded me…😞But here I am🙌🏼
Yuck. What a nightmare of a situation. Big time kudos on making it through!❤️