“How do I get over being cheated on?”
This phrase makes its way into my messages several times a week.
And no matter how many times I read it, my stomach still clenches at those words.
Because I can remember the desperation that I had for that answer. It was part fear – “Can I EVER move past this?” and part plea for help – “HOW in the world can I get through this gutting pain?”
Here’s what I wish I could go back and tell myself in those first, awful months after the discovery of betrayal: