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Drama Queen

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  1. I’m in that same boat right not. A friend that used to be more of a friend told me I’m addicted to drama. Maybe she was right, is right, but I need to let it go!! At least I can see it can get better. Hope you’re having a great Saturday!

  2. Excellent post and I know exactly what you mean.
    Calm is always the aim for me 🙂

  3. Mikhaela Kohlo says:

    Bookmarked. Bookmarked. Bookmarked. Chaos has been the norm all my life. That stops now.

  1. July 6, 2013

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  3. June 22, 2014

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