Do you feel stuck after divorce?
Are you waiting for an apology or an explanation?
Do you want to be able to find closure from your divorce and move on?
If so, I have some good news for you. You CAN find closure. And you can do it alone.
6 Powerful Ways to Create Your Own Closure After Divorce
Lessons From the End of a Marriage 
Thank you – again, I say Thank You!
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No. 4 is good to hear. At times I have second guessed if I started dating too soon. As I look back, it was the right decision because it gave me something positive in my life during the finalization of the “business transaction”. It was not easy to date after 29 years of marriage but has been the best thing to happen. 🙂
😀😀😀 Positivity during times of stress is so important!
Thank you for this. I wish my mom could have read your words when my parents divorced–I believe it would have helped her.
That had to be hard watching your mom suffer.
I was lucky enough to have closure as soon as I walked out of the courtroom. I was so emotionally checked out of the relationship I couldn’t wait for the judge to put it to rest. My divorce took about two years to finish. It was more like a war with plenty of casualties. I know everybody’s divorce is different and my case is not like everybody else’s. I did however have some lingering feelings of sadness, mostly for my kids. I was still very pissed off at my ex for dragging our kids into the firestorm and all of the false accusations. What I found beneficial to me was writing my thoughts about the whole thing down. This morphed into two books. One very long one and one that was an afternoon read. I actually published the shorter one. You don’t have to write a book, but writing down your thoughts can be very beneficial in getting closure and your own mental health.
Writing is indeed a powerful healing tool!
I was never into writing. The problems in my marriage made me one 🙂 found new friends here too. something positive out of a bad situation 🙂
Love hearing about people finding the positives:)
By the way…Here is the link to the book https://amzn.com/B01B6WT5VK
Isra, Even if you never publish a word, it feels so good just to write about your divorce. It is a very healthy way to vent! Good luck to you and I would love to see your work.
Wise words; I’m finding that closure takes time – even when I know things logically emotionally it seems more difficult to sink in – but as time goes on I am feeling more and more at peace.
I hear you! My emotional brain is a slow learner:)
Definitely! And recent events have shown me I still have a bit of a way to go.
Remember, too, that healing isn’t linear. You’ll have some setbacks even when the general path follows an upward trend.
I hope so. Big setback right now, just hope it passes quickly.
Hope it does too!
Loved this post. Thank you. Had been thinking on these lines. Was reassuring to read this. Its not physically possible to erase all memories of a long relationship. Best not to waste time & it helps to find more interesting things to do. Day one of that journey has just begun 🙂
And lots of interesting things await you!