I’m often complemented on my positive attitude about everything that happened to me. It hasn’t always been that way. I was angry. Furious that the person I trusted most in this world betrayed me in the most horrific ways, causing me to lose everything I held sacred. I cursed him. I dreamed violent dreams. IContinue reading “Attitude”

One Isn’t the Loneliest Number

  The song tells us that one is the loneliest number.   The song lies.   Because two has the potential to be lonelier than one could ever be.   When you’re one – alone and single – you know your position. You harbor no false hopes of connection. You carry no expectations of companionship.Continue reading “One Isn’t the Loneliest Number”

The Misuse of Affection

    I’ve written before about how much I have learned from Cesar Millan – not just about dogs, but about myself as well.   10 Life Lessons From the Dog Whisperer   One of Cesar’s common lessons has to do with affection. He cautions owners not to use affection when their dog is inContinue reading “The Misuse of Affection”