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1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2024-03-06T13:21:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2012/12/12/love-after-divorce-reflection-on-a-journey-part-3/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/photo-151.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo-151</image:title><image:caption>Tamely = team + family
The memory card is already full of our adventures and I look forward to adding many more!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/photo-149.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo-149</image:title><image:caption>The note that appeared on my desk a few days later.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_1408.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1408</image:title><image:caption>My boys:)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_1384.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1384</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_1124.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1124</image:title><image:caption>Flowers in the Vitamix. That's how we roll:)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_1088.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1088</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_0477.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0477</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_0455.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0455</image:title><image:caption>He is a fire building machine -  a great asset on camping trips!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/img_0021.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0021</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/photo-70.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo-70</image:title><image:caption>Our blended 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He was touching each medal in turn, saying, "This one's mine...and this one's mine..."  He was highly confident:)  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5-57</image:title><image:caption>Serene. No sign of what's to come.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-5-56.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 5-56</image:title><image:caption>This is what it's all about:)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-4-68.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 4-68</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-4-67.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 4-67</image:title><image:caption>How can you not be happy in this?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-3-78.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 3-78</image:title><image:caption>I thought about trying to build a snowman. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-3-77.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 3-77</image:title><image:caption>NOT a happy camper!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-2-88.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 2-88</image:title><image:caption>I just bought this tent (Big Agnes Big House 6) to replace an old one. It was great - highly recommended! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-2-87.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 2-87</image:title><image:caption>It's a wonder the roof didn't collapse:)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-2-3.png</image:loc><image:title>photo 2-3</image:title><image:caption>See? Polar vortex.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-1-91.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1-91</image:title><image:caption>His highness's "seat" when the ground is cold. 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waves</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/happily-ever-after.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Happily Ever After</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/control.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Control</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/air-traffic-thoughts.jpg</image:loc><image:title>air traffic thoughts</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/once-upon-a-time-719174_1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>once-upon-a-time-719174_1280</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-03-16T14:45:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2015/06/24/how-to-save-a-marriage-in-10-steps/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/vow.jpg</image:loc><image:title>vow</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/sunset-801933_1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sunset-801933_1280</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/partner_s-intent.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Partner’s 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End</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/hands-437968_1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hands-437968_1280</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-03-16T14:45:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2015/07/29/dealing-with-anger-you-have-to-understand-it-before-you-release-it/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5925.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5925</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5924.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5924</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5923.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5923</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5922.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5922</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5921.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5921</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_59201.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5920</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/goat-47987_12801.png</image:loc><image:title>goat-47987_1280</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/anger-794699_1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>anger-794699_1280</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/goat-47987_1280.png</image:loc><image:title>goat-47987_1280</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_5920.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5920</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-03-16T14:44:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2015/08/14/9-tips-to-save-your-marriage/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/sunset-817204_1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sunset-817204_1280</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-03-16T14:44:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/2015/08/12/coping-with-divorce-you-dont-have-to-do-it-alone/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/start-now-board.jpg</image:loc><image:title>start 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new counters underneath a pile of not-the-right-size plumbing parts.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/img_4426.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4426</image:title><image:caption>Is this the one we need?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/img_4421.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4421</image:title><image:caption>A hint of kitchen past once hidden behind a phone jack. 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