Moments of Vulnerability After Divorce

4 Responses

  1. Such a raw and accurate description of what is is like when a relationship ends. I agree that kindnesses completely floor you. Amazing isn’t it. It really does show how weak and vulnerable we feel for a while.

    • stilllearning2b says:

      It does. And it’s also such an important reminder that there is good in the world when it feels like our world is ending.

  2. wild4words says:

    The Emergency Contact one gets me, but my mum lives in my city and my X and I are now in such a good place that I go ahead and list him. My situation is pretty fortunate, as we are navigating our split in a mostly positive way after the rough time in the spring. That said, I find that small things will crop up to remind me that this is still a significant change in our worlds and isn’t happening lightly. Looking at an old wedding photo… attending the wedding of a friend this summer and realizing that things do end. I’m still truly grateful that we are healing and rediscovering friendship. It makes those moments of vulnerability a little less tender as time passes for me.

    • stilllearning2b says:

      I am so happy to hear that you have that support and that you and your ex are finding a way to navigate this gracefully. That is awesome:)

Leave a Reply

%d bloggers like this: