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After the Affair: The Ones Who Choose to Stay

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  1. jenimcmillan says:

    There was a time when i believed in the idea of fidelity, of ‘the one’. Now I believe in constant change. How lucky we are to find new ways of being. How people evolve. Hopefully there is good communication and consent. Obviously’cheating’ isn’t consensual and can be very painful. But it is awonderful opportunity to reassess. To look in the eyes of your partner, to look into their heart and yours. The question is, can we love many people and can we love ourselves enough? The future is ours to make… however we want it to be.

  2. I have come to realize that it’s an impossible thing at least for me to live marriage the way I was taught it is supposed to be. I don’t know I have 2 failed marriages. 1 due to my infidelity and he didn’t want divorce but I couldn’t believe that he could get past it. The second one was not due to infidelity but rather me growing out of him if that makes sense 🤔

  3. I AM STAYING FOR MY KIDS BUT I DO NOT LOOK PAST HIS INFIDELITY IT IS NOT A HIDDEN TOPIC HOWEVER I DO NOT ANNOUNCE IT PUBLICLY I AM AFRAID OF WHY IT WILL DO TO THE KIDS… ANYWAYS HE HURT ME WE BOTH ARE CHANGED OUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT STRONGER 5 YEARS LATER I CAN’T TELL YOU HOW WE MAKE IT BUT I DO KNOW I HAVE AN AWESOME LIFE AND MY KIDS MY HOME IS MY LIFE.. SOME FIGHT FOR THEIR MARRIAGE I BELIEVE MY MARRIAGE DIED WHEN HE STEPPED OUT BUT I FIGHT FOR MY FAMILY THE MARRIAGE IS A BACK BURNER ISSUE FOR ME.. MAYBE ONE DAY IT WON’T BE BUT FOR NOW THAT’S WHERE I STAND

    • stilllearning2b says:

      Thank you for telling your story. It’s a good reminder that marriage can look differently than we think and we can be happy regardless.

  4. Sorry about the caps some reason the reply didn’t go through and I copied and pasted but too lazy to change it 😂😂😂 probably another reason #154672 my husband cheated on me 😂 it’s so sad betrayed get such a bad rap we really are the bestest underdogs ever

    • stilllearning2b says:

      No problem:) Unfortunately, after some trollish activity, I have to have all my comments held for approval. And never underestimate the underdog!

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