Should I Wait Until After the Holidays to Ask For a Divorce?

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  1. mysecretme75 says:

    Reblogged this on Secrets, Lies, and Bare Raw Truths and commented:
    This is good food for thought. I’ll admit I’m guilty of feeling I need to wait until after the holiday season to act. Or at least we’ve out our marital issues in hold until then.

  2. tracihalpin says:

    This is great advice. I gave my former husband the separation papers in early December and he waited until Christmas eve to get them signed and notarized. I came home from a party with my daughter and he left the papers on my pillow with a note that says congratulations you are divorced. I was so angry. That can never be changed. Clearly he was angry and it was on purpose. He had them notarized on that day. What an ass!!! We told her in the spring a month before I was moving out. She was 9 and she sobbed for a half hour. It was heartbreaking. It was tough to hold it together that long but we didn’t want to tell her until it was close to moving out bc she would have been anxious for months and she has anxiety.

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