Search and Rescue

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  1. Ned's Blog says:

    Loved that you took the high road with “revenge.” On my 40th birthday, my ex-wife told me she was leaving. The next day she moved out while I was at work. It was just me and our two children. After the phases of disbelief, grief and anger, I realized the best thing I could do to heal myself and my children was to live well and be happy. I also knew it was the only way I was ever going to find someone again. I had seen friends become bitter, putting up walls to protect themselves. In the process, the only people you find are people with their own walls. No healthy relationship can start with walls. To live happy you have to take some risk and reveal yourself. I’ve been incredibly happily remarried for five years now. I don’t know if I’d call it revenge, but it sure is happiness.

  2. One that I get every week “Is davidji married?” I don’t know, but he gives great guided meditation! I hope wherever my search terms land, the person reading them is as thoughtful as you.

  3. 😀
    I have lived well and been happy. My ex (of 30 years) told me about a year ago, that he made a BIG mistake letting our marriage fail. I smiled, and might have rolled my eyes.

  4. I have the same chuckles and head-scratches from the searches that lead people to mine as well. 🙂

  5. I learn from you every time I read you. I am not there yet, but I will get there. Tip toeing without stubbing a toe over bitter and angry is hard, but I will just stub toes and be okay with it.

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