Some Days Are Harder Than Others

I’m tempted to post a scathing diatribe about my ex, complete with name, SSN, and mugshot.  But fueling that anger won’t help me move forward and won’t make it any easier to sever the ugly tie to the past that reared its ugly head this morning.  So instead, I’m just trying to remember that the current discomfort is only temporary and that I have so much to be thankful for.  I am not going to let his actions ruin my weekend, much less my life.

Happy Saturday:)





Thank you for sharing!

4 thoughts on “Some Days Are Harder Than Others

  1. As I have said previously, I’m only 2 months into the world of separation/divorce but I know you are doing the right thing. Here in the Greater Toronto Area (eh!) it is a glorious, sunny weekend with wonderful breezes. I’ll be damned if STBX is going to do anything to slow my enjoyment of it!

  2. smommy – I am a single mom, by choice. I decided to separate from my husband and an unhappy marriage over three years ago. My son was two at the time. I am pretty much raising my kid on my own with occasional support of my family when I need it. (I don't like to admit I need it, ever!) My soon to be ex-husband (STBX) is an alcoholic and after we separated and he moved back to San Francisco, he became a drug addict also. Life is a struggle, but a sweet one since I have this awesome boy and we love each other sooooo much! Now, if I could magically be divorced, that would be great...but alas, I cannot force him to sign the documents. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, but there are moments when it seems so far away and unreachable.
    smommy says:

    Thank you. I needed a reminder. Damn, this hurts.

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