One of the things I love most about my partner is that he sees himself as a perpetual student; he is always willing and eager to learn something new, even in an area where he is considered an expert.
Last year, we were out at dinner with a group of friends. One of our friend’s 8 year son opened the conversation with my boyfriend.
“Do you have a black belt?” the boy asked eagerly.
“I do,” came the reply.
“Actually, he has several,” interjected the boy’s dad.
“Wow! Does that mean you know everything?”
“Actually, a black belt means that you are ready to begin learning.”
I loved that response. It serves as a reminder to me to always be open to learning more, especially in those areas where I already have knowledge.
In that spirit, here are ten lessons that I am still learning:
1) Life doesn’t just have two speeds – on and off. It is not only possible to go slowly, but sometimes it is preferable.
2) It is okay not to be the first one at work; stuff still manages to get done even if I arrive after the custodians.
3) I’m working on learning to sleep past 6:00 am and considering the possibility of mastering the power nap.
4) A messy kitchen does not mean a chaotic life. It just means that people actually live in our house.
5) Sometimes it is okay for the play to come before the work. (I got this one from my dog)
6) I am still working on going downhill on wheels (bikes, skates, etc.). I just don’t trust those things!
7) Stretching is worthwhile exercise even if is doesn’t work up a sweat.
8) It is okay to relax.
9) Money will be there; I don’t need to get too stressed about it.
10) Always take time to appreciate what you have and remember to express your gratitude. Especially when the kitchen is messy.
Wow!! 😀 A great post. And a great partner!
That IS a great answer. And exactly right.
That is so great that you two found each other and are together together. (intentional repeated words)
Thanks for your post. When I grow up, I want to be like you!
Excellent list of 10 😀
…and I could easily add another 100! There is still so much to learn!
I hate stretching. It even hurts lots of times but it is key, especially as we get older. My kitchen is a wreck too, just too much clutter. And learning how to just sit down and relax is hard. I think I can relate to all your lessons here and add life is always a learning process. We need to keep learning. You go Tough Mudder!
hmm interesting, you mean I am not unique to have all these anxieties ?!!….heres to continually growing