Vulnerable
I’ve been feeling very vulnerable lately. Why? Who knows, but it doesn’t really matter, does it? What matters is that I need to learn to be here when my body […]
Tag Archives: sudden spousal abandonment
The Book is Out!
You can now find my book on Amazon! The rest of my unbelievable story! More lessons! More metaphors! Check it out! The book is currently available on Kindle. I will […]
What is a Tsunami Divorce?
What is a Tsunami Divorce? A tsunami divorce is one that completely blindsides a spouse, flattening him or her with a wave that was never spotted. A tsunami divorce is […]
The Day the Marriage Died
Up until now, everything I have posted has been recently written, almost 3 years since the end of my marriage. I recently went back and visited some of my earlier […]
I’ve Buried the Hatchet, but I’ve Marked its Location
Forgiveness is such a loaded word. It requires an acceptance of someone’s actions. Actions that may be horrific, born from unknown motivations. Forgiveness was on my mind soon after I […]
Marital Treason
Caution: Rant ahead. Proceed with care. There is so much about the legal process of divorce that is just not fair. I’m feeling that very acutely right now, as I […]
Clean Up, Aisle 5
I received a notice in the mail yesterday that I have to report to court to settle one of the financial messes that my ex left behind. I have known […]
Where Is He Now?
When I share my story, one of the most frequent questions I get is, “Where is he now?” I don’t know the answer to that question. Here is what I […]
How It Began
My own divorce story began in 2009 when I received a surprise text after 10 years of marriage that my husband was leaving. That text was the last contact I […]
