Comments on: My Lessons http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com There is life after divorce Tue, 21 May 2013 06:09:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: stilllearning2b http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-5772 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 22:34:23 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-5772 My heart goes out to you and your babies. It is so hard to learn about your spouse’s lies, to discover that your protector has become your persecutor. Betrayal truly is one of the worst pains imaginable. There is no quick fix, no shortcut through the agony. But the way you feel right now will not be how you feel in 6 months. Or a year. Sometimes just knowing that it will change is comfort in itself. Hugs to you and the kids.

]]> By: deirdre http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-5771 Wed, 10 Apr 2013 22:28:48 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-5771 I started the separation process today. im devasted. my husband had a girlfriend & lied totally to me. he said he didn’t have time or emotional energy for me. i have 1 yr old, a 3 yr old, a 4 yr old old & a 7 yr old.

]]> By: heroesnpirates http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-5697 Sun, 07 Apr 2013 04:28:28 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-5697 Since then? Waaay better. Still looking for love but nowhere near the black hole I was in. Thanks for your reply.

]]> By: stilllearning2b http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-5680 Sat, 06 Apr 2013 10:49:04 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-5680 I am so sorry to hear that. I can sympathize – the suddenness, the shock is so severe. It’s not easy to survive. I hope that you’re in a better place now.

]]> By: heroesnpirates http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-5674 Sat, 06 Apr 2013 07:02:47 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-5674 For me, like you, I was terrified of losing my partner. But when I actually did, the experience was horrific beyond anything I could’ve imagined in part because it happened so suddenly. I felt panic, confusion, despondency and incredible yearning all brought to a fever pitch breaking point. I was suicidal on and off for a bit more than a year.

]]> By: Caroline http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-4598 Mon, 28 Jan 2013 12:11:40 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-4598 You write so honestly about this. Thanks for shriang!

]]> By: stilllearning2b http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-3937 Sun, 06 Jan 2013 11:35:48 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-3937 “there is a tranquility to be found in the process of becoming” Love it:) I had to learn that too… I thought I needed to wait to live until I was healed. Then I finally realized that healing is found through living.

Welcome to WordPress:) You should see a “follow” button in the upper left hand corner when you are on any page within someone’s blog. Good luck!

]]> By: Annie http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-3936 Sun, 06 Jan 2013 11:29:25 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-3936 I can relate to a lot of the lessons you have taken from your divorce and the transformative power it can bring into our lives, if we allow it to. I’m still on the journey to enlightenment, but have accepted that it will take my lifetime. Before I thought everything had to be done right here and right now. I am learning that there is a tranquility to be found in the process of becoming.
Love your Blog – sorry haven’t quite worked out how to follow yet :)

]]> By: stilllearning2b http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-3924 Sat, 05 Jan 2013 21:16:31 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-3924 I wish you the best on your journey. I love your picture. Carry the light with you regardless of which direction your path leads:)

]]> By: katyloveless http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/my-lessons/#comment-3920 Sat, 05 Jan 2013 18:26:15 +0000 http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/?page_id=1326#comment-3920 So much here to learn from here, thank you! I really hope to use some of these lessons to rescue what I used to have but if not, I’m grateful to have your journey to help me on mine.

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