The Misuse of Affection
I’ve written before about how much I have learned from Cesar Millan – not just about dogs, but about myself as well. 10 Life Lessons From the […]
Category Archives: Relationships
Pardon Me, Ego. I Need to Get Through.
Ego: the “I” or self of any person; a person as thinking, feeling, and willing, and distinguishing itself from the selves of others and from objects of its thought. (from […]
Dating After Divorce: Ten Tips for Success
Dating after divorce tends to be a deliberate action, entered into consciously and tentatively after years or even decades with the same person. This can be an opportunity for you […]
Why I Never Want to Get REmarried
Remarriage I recently met a fellow divorcee and runner over breakfast in a hotel lobby. We bonded over talk about our respective divorces and our motivations to run the race […]
Love After Divorce: A Reflection on a Journey, Part 1
I was on Terri Trespicio’s radio show, How to Click?, last week. Her questions had me reflecting on the journey that has taken me from married to single to dating […]
Fault Lines
I May Not Be Traditional
My boyfriend and I went camping on our first two Thanksgivings together. Neither one of us have family in town and we are physically unable to fragment ourselves enough to […]
Mutually Exclusive
I had a statistics professor during my undergrad who used to constantly tap his temple and utter “Columbo logic” followed by a broad gesture with the arms and the phrase […]
Static Cling
I came across this article today (Cling Less, Love More) on Psychology Today and found myself startled with realization. I never would have described myself as clingy with my […]
Life’s Odometer
I received the text just months shy of our tenth anniversary. The divorce process being what it is, the marriage persisted after the ten year mark. The wedding was never […]
