Comments on: Where Is He Now?

By: stilllearning2b

stilllearning2b — Fri, 16 Nov 2012 11:33:41 +0000

Hang in there! The end is in sight:)

By: wanderlustryramblings

wanderlustryramblings — Fri, 16 Nov 2012 05:06:46 +0000

I can relate to that. I still track all his activities every day so that he cannot spring a nasty surprise on me once again. But yes, like you, once this is over I will not be compelled to look him up ever again. Awaiting the day when I can finally say good riddance to bad rubbish.

Hopefully it should be final in another 2-3 months.

By: stilllearning2b

stilllearning2b — Thu, 15 Nov 2012 22:39:05 +0000

It’s true. My daily routine was to do what I could to track his whereabouts. I hated it but was too scared not to know where he was or what he may be doing. Many people are surprised that I can resist looking him up (especially when I do receive new information), but I have no desire to ever Google his name again. Good bye and good riddance.

How much longer do you think you have before it’s final?

By: wanderlustryramblings

wanderlustryramblings — Thu, 15 Nov 2012 13:18:52 +0000

Its always best to stop keeping tabs on your ex so that you can move on…I am currently going through my divorce so desperately waiting for the day when I can stop keeping tabs so that he cannot harm me. But till then, keep your friends close and enemies closer…sigh.

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By: stilllearning2b

stilllearning2b — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 18:34:58 +0000

I get help from the boyfriend (a multiple black belt) and the dog (a 95 lb pit bull). That’s quite a team to serve as bouncers!

By: katieswanberg

katieswanberg — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 18:30:54 +0000

Thanks! I heard that somewhere else and adopted it. I’m not perfect – sometimes unruly and undeserving people make it past the entrance, but security (my best friend and boyfriend) spots them and helps clear them out! Team effort.

By: stilllearning2b

stilllearning2b — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 18:29:04 +0000

I love that – the bouncer of your own life. What a cool way to look at it! Thanks:)

By: Katie

Katie — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 18:23:56 +0000

I am proud that from the moment we broke up, I blocked my ex and unlinked us online everywhere I could think of. I didn’t want to see what he was up to, and I have never looked him (or the woman he left me for or his new girlfriend two weeks after that) up. I was lucky that nothing tricky was going on financially, but that’s only because I took half of the cash in our bank account and left a few days after it officially ended and made peace with the fact he was destroying our house and letting it go into foreclosure. I lit a match and walked away. And when he got a little sideways to me about something, I threatened to have all correspondence go through MY lawyer and make his life a living hell since he was too lazy to hire one. He never said a peep or caused any trouble to me after that. Our divorce was finalized a year later. We only spoke four times during that last year I think.

I feel like people come into my life for a reason, but also leave it for a reason. I’m the bouncer to this fabulous club called Katie’s Life and I’ll be damned if people like him make it past the velvet rope. I commend you for not keeping tabs on your ex-husband anymore. Your life deserves better, and you’re living it.